What is a civil ceremony?
A civil ceremony is a farewell tribute with no religious component. There is no service — instead there are words, memories, music, and moments of reflection, chosen by the family.
It is suitable for those who were not attached to a particular faith, or who wished for a personal farewell without the structure of a church rite.

What the law says
Romanian law recognises both religious and civil burial. In a religious funeral, the canons and tradition of the relevant faith are followed; in a civil funeral, the organisers determine how the ceremony proceeds.
The civil ceremony is not regulated in detail, which means complete freedom in designing it.
Law no. 102/2014 on cemeteries and funeral servicesWho officiates?
The civil ceremony is led by a master of ceremonies, who does not represent any religious body. He or she coordinates the proceedings and speaks the farewell words according to the family's wishes.
Because the ceremony is not regulated, the officiant does not need formal accreditation — it can be a friend or a family member who understands the wishes of those who are grieving.
Who is it suitable for?
The civil ceremony suits several situations:
- People who were not attached to a particular faith
- Families who want a personal farewell rather than a religious one
- Those who have left written instructions requesting a civil ceremony
- Families with different beliefs who choose a neutral form
A possible order of events
The civil ceremony has no fixed structure, but many follow a similar thread:
- Welcoming those present and an opening word
- Evoking the life of the departed — an obituary or shared memories
- A musical moment — a piece of music meaningful to the departed
- A moment of silent reflection
- The farewell words and the final tribute

Words and memories
The heart of the civil ceremony is the spoken word — an obituary, memories shared by those close to the departed, a poem, or a text meaningful to the person who has gone.
Those close to the departed can be invited to say a few words. Prepared in advance, these contributions give warmth and depth to the occasion.
Music and personal symbols
Music plays an important role — a piece meaningful to the departed or a quiet, contemplative melody. Personal symbols can also be included: photographs, cherished objects, candles.
Flowers are chosen with the same sobriety as for any ceremony. Everything is matched to the personality and life of the departed.
The civil ceremony and cremation
A civil ceremony pairs naturally with cremation, increasingly chosen by families who prefer a non-religious farewell.
It can be held before the cremation or at the interment of the urn, according to the family's wishes.
How we help
We organise the civil ceremony according to your wishes — the venue, the officiant, the words, the music, and the personal symbols — for a dignified and personal farewell. See also our civil ceremony service.
We are available day and night. For a no-obligation conversation, call us.
