Do you offer psychological counselling?

No. We are a funeral home, not psychologists. We listen calmly, help with the practical side, and direct you toward a psychologist, support group, or spiritual director depending on what you need.

How long does grief last?

There is no fixed timeframe. For many people the pain becomes easier to carry within a few months, but everyone mourns at their own pace. What matters is the direction — if the grief is not easing at all, seek support.

When should I see a specialist?

When the grief remains as intense as ever for months on end, prevents you from functioning day to day, leaves you completely isolated, or brings persistent disruptions to sleep or eating. Your family doctor can refer you to a psychologist.

What is a grief support group?

A meeting — often led by a specialist — where people who have lost someone share their experience. It is especially helpful for those who feel that nobody around them truly understands what they are going through.

How do I talk to a child about losing someone they love?

Honestly, calmly, and in language that suits their age. Avoid euphemisms such as 'they have gone to sleep,' which can confuse. If a child seems stuck in grief or changes significantly, ask a child specialist for guidance.

Does your support cost anything?

No. Listening and pointing you toward resources is part of our free, confidential consultation, regardless of whether you go on to use our services.

What if I am having thoughts of harming myself?

Seek help immediately. Call 112 or go to your nearest emergency department. These thoughts must be taken seriously and should never be carried alone.

Grief Counselling Support

Grief counselling: when it helps and where to find it

Grief is a natural response to loss. For most people, the pain eases over time with the support of family and friends. Sometimes, though, it exceeds what those closest to you can hold — and that is when specialist help matters. We are a funeral home, not psychologists, but we will listen without hurrying you and point you toward a professional or a support group that fits. The first step is not carrying the pain alone.

Updated: 22 June 2026

What grief is and when it becomes overwhelming

Grief is the process we go through after losing someone we love. It brings sadness, longing, sometimes anger or guilt. All of these are normal reactions and follow no fixed calendar — each person mourns at their own pace.

Most of the time, the pain gradually becomes easier to carry. But there are situations where it remains just as intense for months on end, or where it prevents everyday life from functioning. When that happens, reaching out for specialist support is the right call.

Fine black mourning veil draped over a neutral stand, delicate texture in soft diffused light — Illustrative image: grief has its own rhythm — it follows no fixed calendar.

How we can help

We stay alongside the family after the funeral. We answer the phone, we listen, and we do not rush anyone. We do not offer therapy — we are not psychologists — but we can direct you to real specialists and resources.

We can also help with the practical burdens of the first weeks: arranging memorial services, handling remaining paperwork, or answering questions about the next steps. Sharing the administrative load often gives a family more space to grieve.

Where to find specialist support

The right support varies from person to person. Some need a one-to-one session with a specialist; others need a group where they do not feel alone; others need pastoral guidance. The table below shows the main directions.

Type of support	What it helps with
Clinical psychologist / psychotherapist	Prolonged grief, anxiety, depression, individual support
Grief support group	The feeling that you are not the only one going through this
Priest or spiritual director	Spiritual support, meaning and comfort in faith
Family doctor (GP)	First point of contact: can assess the situation and refer you to a specialist

Where to look for grief support If thoughts of harming yourself arise, seek help immediately — call 112 or go to your nearest emergency department.

Signs that it may be time to see a specialist

There is no hard rule, but certain signs suggest that grief may need professional support. If several of the following apply to you, asking to speak with a psychologist is a step worth taking:

Grief that remains just as intense after many months, with no relief at all
An inability to return to daily activities — work, household tasks, sleep
Complete withdrawal from friends and family
Persistent disruptions to sleep or eating
Overwhelming feelings of guilt or a sense that life has no meaning

Calm consultation desk with lamp, notebook and white rose — illustrative image — Illustrative image: a calm conversation, without pressure, can be the first step.

How those around the bereaved person can help

Family and friends make an enormous difference. There is no need for grand words — a quiet presence, a phone call, help with daily chores often says more than any advice.

Listen without rushing and without minimising the pain. Avoid phrases that tell someone to 'be strong.' Offer concrete help rather than just 'let me know if you need anything' — cook a meal, accompany them to an appointment, call regularly.

Children and grief

Children grieve differently from adults and need honest, calm explanations pitched to their age. Avoid euphemisms that may confuse them, such as 'they have gone to sleep.'

If a child seems stuck in grief, becomes withdrawn, or shows a significant change in behaviour, a psychologist who specialises in children can help. Your family doctor or school counsellor can point you in the right direction.

How to get started

If you are not sure where to begin, call us. We listen, we answer practical questions, and we point you toward the right support — with no obligation. If you are still in the first days, see also first steps after a death.

Our consultation is free and confidential. You can also visit our main free consultation page or reach us through contact.

Answers to frequent questions

Do you offer psychological counselling?
No. We are a funeral home, not psychologists. We listen calmly, help with the practical side, and direct you toward a psychologist, support group, or spiritual director depending on what you need.
How long does grief last?
There is no fixed timeframe. For many people the pain becomes easier to carry within a few months, but everyone mourns at their own pace. What matters is the direction — if the grief is not easing at all, seek support.
When should I see a specialist?
When the grief remains as intense as ever for months on end, prevents you from functioning day to day, leaves you completely isolated, or brings persistent disruptions to sleep or eating. Your family doctor can refer you to a psychologist.
What is a grief support group?
A meeting — often led by a specialist — where people who have lost someone share their experience. It is especially helpful for those who feel that nobody around them truly understands what they are going through.
How do I talk to a child about losing someone they love?
Honestly, calmly, and in language that suits their age. Avoid euphemisms such as 'they have gone to sleep,' which can confuse. If a child seems stuck in grief or changes significantly, ask a child specialist for guidance.
Does your support cost anything?
No. Listening and pointing you toward resources is part of our free, confidential consultation, regardless of whether you go on to use our services.
What if I am having thoughts of harming myself?
Seek help immediately. Call 112 or go to your nearest emergency department. These thoughts must be taken seriously and should never be carried alone.