PALLBEARING · COFFIN LOWERING

Pallbearing and coffin lowering at the graveside

Carrying the coffin and lowering it into the grave is the final moment of a burial, requiring experience, the right equipment, and respect. Pallbearers carry the coffin from the hearse to the graveside, and the lowering is done with lowering straps, smoothly and under control. We handle everything so the family can be fully present in the moment.

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Funeral floral arrangements on the hood and side of a hearse, ready to depart
pallbearing — coffin lowering. Illustrative image.

What pallbearing involves

Pallbearing means carrying the coffin from the hearse to the church and then to the graveside, as well as lowering it into the grave. It is the final physical act of the burial, requiring care and experience.

A coffin — particularly one made from solid hardwood — is heavy. Carrying and lowering it safely and with dignity is not straightforward, which is why it is done by experienced staff.

Funeral floral arrangements on the hood and side of a hearse, ready to depart
Illustrative image: the funeral cortège, before the coffin is lowered.

The pallbearers

The coffin is usually carried by four to six people, depending on its weight. They may be relatives and close friends of the deceased, or funeral home staff.

Many families prefer relatives to bear the coffin as a mark of respect. Where this is not possible — a heavy coffin, difficult terrain — we provide experienced pallbearers.

How the coffin is lowered

The coffin is lowered using strong straps or a purpose-made lowering device. It is positioned on supports over the open grave, then lowered smoothly and under control by the pallbearers.

The moment requires synchronisation and care so that the coffin descends straight and evenly. Our experienced staff ensure the safety and dignity of this final step.

The ritual at the graveside

The lowering of the coffin is accompanied by prayers and traditional gestures. The priest speaks the final prayers, and family and friends scatter earth over the coffin.

In some traditions a handful of soil and flowers are cast in. These are intense moments, and our team attends with discretion and respect.

Equipment used

For a safe lowering, several items are used:

  • Strong lowering straps or a purpose-made lowering device
  • Supports for positioning the coffin over the grave
  • Gloves and secure handles for the pallbearers
  • A cloth or matting along the edge of the grave, where needed

Safety and dignity

A heavy coffin, a deep grave, and sometimes difficult ground require careful attention. Experienced staff prevent accidents and ensure a smooth, steady lowering.

Beyond the practical, the moment calls for dignity. The team works quietly in the background, allowing the family to experience the final farewell without worrying about logistics.

What is included in the service

We provide the pallbearers, lowering equipment, and coordination with the priest and the cemetery administration:

  • Pallbearers, if the family does not provide them
  • Lowering straps or device
  • Coordination with the priest for prayers at the graveside
  • Preparation of the grave edge and supports
  • Discreet attendance throughout

Who handles everything

Pallbearing and lowering are part of the burial service. We coordinate them together with the transport, the service, and the rest of the ceremony.

We answer day and night. For a no-obligation conversation, call us or see our funeral packages that include burial.

Graveside customs

The lowering of the coffin is accompanied by customs that vary from one region to another:

  • Each person close to the deceased scatters a handful of earth
  • Flowers are placed on the coffin after it has been lowered
  • A prayer or a final farewell is spoken
  • Candles are lit at the edge of the grave

FREQUENT QUESTIONS

What families ask about pallbearing and coffin lowering at the graveside

  • What does pallbearing involve?

    Carrying the coffin from the hearse to the church and then to the graveside, plus lowering it into the grave. It is the final physical act of the burial, requiring experience and respect.

  • How many pallbearers carry the coffin?

    Usually four to six, depending on the weight. They may be relatives and close friends, or funeral home staff if the family cannot provide pallbearers.

  • How is the coffin lowered into the grave?

    Using strong lowering straps or a purpose-made lowering device. The coffin is positioned on supports over the grave and then lowered smoothly and under control.

  • Can relatives carry the coffin?

    Yes, many families prefer this as a mark of respect. Where it is not practical — a heavy coffin or difficult terrain — we provide experienced pallbearers.

  • Who provides pallbearers if the family cannot?

    We do. We provide experienced staff for carrying and lowering the coffin, safely and with dignity.

  • What equipment is used for the lowering?

    Strong lowering straps or a lowering device, supports for positioning the coffin over the grave, and secure handles and gloves for the pallbearers.

  • What happens at the moment of lowering?

    The priest speaks the final prayers, and family and friends scatter earth over the coffin. In some traditions, a handful of soil and flowers are cast in.

  • Is coffin lowering dangerous?

    With experienced staff and the right equipment, no. A heavy coffin and a deep grave require care — which is why this is entrusted to professionals.

  • Does the family attend the lowering?

    Yes. Lowering the coffin is part of the ritual, and family and friends are present for prayers and the scattering of earth.

  • How long does the lowering take?

    The lowering itself takes a few minutes. With prayers and the traditional graveside customs, the graveside ceremony usually lasts 30 to 60 minutes in total.

  • Is a mechanical lowering device sometimes used?

    At some cemeteries, yes. A device allows a smooth, controlled descent. At others, the coffin is lowered by the pallbearers using straps.

  • Who digs the grave?

    Cemetery staff, or our team, before the cortège arrives. We also prepare the grave edge and the supports for the coffin.

  • What happens after the coffin is lowered?

    Earth and flowers are scattered, then the grave is filled in. The family can remain for a final moment before the memorial meal that follows.

  • Is pallbearing included in the burial service?

    Yes. Carrying and lowering the coffin are part of the burial service, alongside transport, the church service, and the ceremony.

  • Does a heavier coffin need more pallbearers?

    Yes. A solid hardwood coffin — oak or mahogany — is heavy and normally requires six pallbearers for a safe carrying and lowering.

  • Can the coffin be lowered in wet weather?

    Yes, with additional care. In bad weather we use secure handholds and protect the grave edge, to ensure a safe lowering.

  • Is the lowering different for a vault or mausoleum?

    At a vault, the coffin is placed in a niche rather than lowered into the ground. The handling is different, adapted to the construction of the vault.

  • How do you help at this moment?

    We provide the pallbearers, equipment, and coordination with the priest and the cemetery. The family experiences the moment without worrying about logistics.

  • Can women be pallbearers?

    Yes. Anyone close to the deceased can bear the coffin, regardless of gender, if they wish and are able. Where physical strength is needed, we supplement with our experienced staff.

  • How many pallbearers are needed for a very heavy coffin?

    For a solid hardwood or oversized coffin, usually six pallbearers, to carry and lower it safely.

  • Are pallbearers charged separately?

    They are usually included in the burial service. If the family requests additional pallbearers, the cost is communicated clearly in advance.

  • What if there are not enough pallbearers in the family?

    We provide experienced pallbearers. You need not worry if relatives are not available or not enough — we take care of it.

  • Can the lowering be filmed?

    At the family's request, yes — discreetly. Some prefer a sober record of the ceremony; others prefer complete privacy. We respect the family's choice.

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