How many days, for which relative
The count follows the degree of kinship. First-degree relatives — spouse, children, parents — plus parents-in-law: 3 paid working days. Second-degree relatives — grandparents, brothers, sisters: typically 1 paid working day.
These figures are written into law for the public sector (Government Decision 250/1992) and mirrored by most private employers in their internal regulations or collective agreements. Some companies give more; less than the applicable collective agreement is not allowed.
Article 152, Romanian Labour Code — paid leave for special family eventsWhat the law actually says
Article 152(1) of the Labour Code: for special family events, employees are entitled to paid days off that do not count against annual leave. Paragraph (2) says the events and the number of days are set by law, by the applicable collective labour agreement, or by internal regulations.
Two practical consequences. One: the right itself can't be refused — your employer decides how many days, not whether. Two: the days are fully paid and your holiday allowance stays untouched.
The days are working days, taken around the event
Bereavement days are working days. If the funeral falls on a Saturday, you don't lose the entitlement — it covers the working days around the event.
They're normally taken immediately: the day of death, the wake, the funeral itself. Some internal regulations allow a short deferral — say, for a trip to another county a week later. Ask HR before assuming either way.
If you need more than 3 days
Three days is rarely enough to organize a funeral — especially from another city or another country. Your options: annual leave days, unpaid leave (Article 153 of the Labour Code), or remote-work arrangements if your employer allows them.
This is also where we come in: we take over the paperwork, transport, and ceremony coordination, so the days you do have go to your family — not to queues at government counters.
If your employer refuses
Refusing bereavement leave for a first-degree relative breaches Article 152 and the applicable collective agreement. Ask for the refusal in writing, quote the article and the internal regulations, and if nothing changes, file a complaint with the Territorial Labour Inspectorate (ITM) for your county.
Disciplinary action for missing work on the day of a close relative's funeral, with a properly filed request, does not survive in court.
